![]() What makes you feel engaged and turned on? It is the result of coercion.įlip the script of his questioning and explain why you do want to have sex with him when you do. Agreeing to sex only to avoid punishment is not consent. Punishing a partner for not having sex by being disrespectful, emotionally distant or angry creates a dynamic where saying no to sex becomes imbued with anxiety or even fear of emotional retaliation. You may think that the term “coercion” is extreme it’s not. Here’s the simple answer: he is not entitled to sex whenever he wants, you don’t need to defend your choice not to have sex whenever he wants, and sulking because someone won’t have sex with you is a form of coercion that I would deem a dumpable offence. We have sex at least three times a week, but it's not enough for him. ![]() Things will be okay for a while, but then he reverts to the same behaviour. I've spoken to him many times about this and explained that I don't always need a reason. Dear Roe – my partner wants sex every night, sulks when I don't agree, and wants to know why.
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